Tracking down the best gifts for couples can be a yearly source of dread. After all, the vow of holy matrimony comes with a lot of responsibility: supporting him through all the highs and lows, accepting his family as your own, and thinking of wonderful gift ideas every year — until death do you part — is just part of the deal.
In the early days of dating, it was a little easier, he likes beer? Boom, cute bottle opener. He stated that he had never seen it before evil? Layup, two tickets to the orchestra. But as the years go by, a sense of panic begins to creep in – what do you give the man who already has everything?
Deep breath. First, expand your definitions of what a gift can be. At its core, a gift is just a way to show that you are seen. Is there a new interest you’ve been slow to start exploring? Give him the push. Is he wearing a pair of shoes on the floor? Solve that for him. Do you always spend on others but not on yourself? Brag a little on his behalf. Here’s a no-fail guide to save you some indecision fatigue this holiday season.
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The best gifts for couples, at a glance
Know what to get the person you know best? Harder than it looks! Here’s a shortlist of some of our favorite picks this year for your very special pair:
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Fitness and outdoor gifts
Asics
Gel Nimbus 25 running shoe
Stanley
Classic easy-pour growler
Whether he’s into the great outdoors, or more of a “barbecue on the porch” type, there’s nothing better than the roar of an ice cold drink filled with his favorite beverage. This product is made with dishwasher-safe stainless steel and a spill-resistant lid to keep the good times going (but not leak all over it).
Ora
Aura Ring Gen3 Horizon
If he’s interested in tracking his health stats but wants something a little more stealthy than a Fitbit, the Oura arguably packs more tracking tech (we’re talking 20 different types of biometrics) into one simple ring. It connects to 40 different health apps like Apple Health or Strava, plus it’s HSA/FSA eligible if you have some money to use before the year is out.
topo designs
Mountain Tool Bag 33L
Who doesn’t like a big bag? This roomy, mountaineering-inspired joint is made from sturdy recycled nylon, has a waterproof lining and a zipper top to keep your stuff dry, all while looking cool and colorful as hell.
Patagonia
Isthmus anorak pullover
How do you turn recycled nylon fishing nets into sick shield? We have no idea — we leave that to the professionals at Patagonia, who have streamlined this packable, quick-drying UPF 40+ sunscreen number that gets our stamp of approval.
Tracking Maker
Easter light sweater
Unlike tracksuits and traditional running clothes, Tracksmith’s agile running gear is just as sexy, like this jacket with a sleek aerodynamic design that’s also warm enough to insulate him from the dreaded wind chill.
Hyperpress
HyperPhenom 2 back cover
Give his pain a break with this high-tech wrap that uses targeted heat and vibration massage to soothe pain and relieve stress. In one word: Ahhhhh.
Bowflex
Select Tech 552 Adjustable Dumbbell
Does he want to make big gains in a small space? These adjustable dumbbells can condense an entire weight rack into one compact footprint.
Peak design
Travel duffel
Maxon
Under desk treadmill
Science tells us time and time again that simply walking every day can have significant impacts on our overall health in the long run. An under-desk treadmill is one way to help him get more steps from home, whether he’s doing it while sending emails in the vacuum or while listening to a podcast.
Meryl
Moab 3 Medium Waterproof Hiking Boot
Camock
Ursa mini sleep system
Sweet dreams under the stars are a certainty with this innovative design that combines a self-inflating mattress base, a memory foam topper and a sleeping bag. It’s camping with a hint of camping, because who said spending time outdoors has to be uncomfortable, anyway?
Manduca
eKO Superlite yoga mat
With this ultra-lightweight, foldable mat (made from gentle natural rubber), his yoga practice can roll onto his own foldable board.
Cask
Snow helmet with silver treasure mask
One of the only innovations to a ski/snowboard helmet in recent memory, Kask has taken the hassle out of the typical rubber goggle strap and combined it into one streamlined helmet design that looks cool as hell.
Big Rock Candy Mountaineering
Alpine jacket
This independent clothing company designed its signature puff based on the always ostentatious style of 1970s mountaineers, while updating it for a more modern trip from car rentals to Airbnb.
Patagonia
Base Camp Duffel Bag
This high-performance bag is made from almost all recycled materials, can be carried in hand or backpack, and packs away into a small storage bag when not in use, making it versatile enough for any adventure (camping trip or epic sales conference). He’ll come next.
Solgard
Original carrying cabinet
Does he hate organization no matter how many packing cubes you throw at him? This bag brings something new to the table that could change a traveler’s life with the addition of a “closet” system that hangs for easy organization (no more piles on the floor the night before a trip), and uses a compression strap to shrink when it’s time to pack.
Snow peak
Takipi Fire and Grill
Is there anything hotter than seeing your man start a fire and cook something on top of it? Well, with this award-winning and wonderfully packable portable heater, he’ll be able to make it happen anywhere from a remote campsite to your own small backyard.
Monitoring
10″ Lighted Baseball Net Set
Pickleball doesn’t have to be just a summer sport. With this light-up set that includes a glowing net, paddles and balls, he can keep eating even after dark.
Care gifts
Salt and stone
Bergamot & Hinoki full size body care set
Dermalogica
Daily milk scrub
Listen, you can’t make a man feel guilty for exfoliating regularly. He needs that feel The exfoliating power of the same. Fortunately, Dermalogica makes an oat-based “milk scrub” that works great and looks impressive in your medicine cabinet.
Panasonic
All-in-one multi-pack
If you’re someone who struggles with weird gadgets everywhere in your bathroom, start here. This all-in-one set allows him to do everything from shaping his beard to brushing his teeth.
Dermaflash
Dermapore+ pore extractor and serum refiner
You can drag him to a facial, or help him clean those pores at home. This powerful new device uses ultrasound and (futuristic!) ionic technology to extract dirt and oil, then switches to “infuse” mode to start working the serum on those fine lines.
Aesop
Moroccan barber duet with neroli
I hope his mug is always moisturized and his skin soothed after shaving thanks to this dual shaving set.
Wow Haman
F. Hamann Todd Snyder Grooming Kit
There is no greater satisfaction than a very well made, functional everyday piece. Upgrade his grooming kit for a lifetime with this exquisite edition from the five-generation family leather goods maker.
DS and Durga
Depacer Buffing Bar Duo
Bullfighter
Flatpack waterproof toiletry bag
Made from durable, water-resistant canvas, this toiletry bag is built for the road. It would keep his toiletries dry from the elements, while keeping the rest of his stuff dry from the leaky bottle of body wash at the hotel that he stashed away and forgot about.
shark
SpeedStyle Pro Flex Hair Dryer System
Invest in those beautiful tresses with a professional hair dryer that has attachments to suit all hair types, and a foldable body for easy travel.
Feverqueen
Feverqueen Annual Recommendations Box
Not to toot our own trumpet, but to all Feverqueen The team searches for the best stuff available all day, every day Feverqueen Box is the culmination of this emotional (obsessive) quest. Gift your man a subscription and each month he’ll receive a highly curated selection of our favorite items across grooming tools, accessories, apparel and more. Think of it as a gift inside a gift!
Home and kitchen gifts
Bull and branch
Sheet set with distinctive edges
Monster health
Small mixer
If “rise and grind” for him means crushing fruits and veggies into his morning smoothie, but you don’t have enough room to whip up a huge Vitamix, start small. This compact blender cup cleverly acts as a drinking vessel itself with a straw lid system that clips right on and out the door.
All dressed
10-Piece Nonstick Bakeware Set
For the casual baker who wants to get serious, a set of All-Clad nonstick bakeware will help him produce many permutations of loaves and pies (and also treat yourself to the spoils).
Lego
McLaren P1 Collection
At nearly 4,000 pieces, this build is extremely complex, challenging and a lot of fun. Is there a lot of money for a LEGO set? certainly. But remember, a real McLaren P1 costs over $1,000,000, so in that sense, you’ll get through your midlife crisis for a lot less money.
Preville
Bambino Plus espresso maker
An entry-level espresso maker that will make even the biggest coffee novices feel like budding baristas. It has the automated programming, sleek design, and small footprint to make it a solid investment for any couple upgrading from pods to tow shots.
Palo
Weighted comforter
Real Simple Tools
He shocks the oyster knife
Not only does this knife look like a futuristic heirloom, but the rounded handle also rotates easily in your palm as you shock it to prevent discomfort, a little detail that the oyster lover in your life will really appreciate.
Victoria
10 inch skillet
If he’s ready to take his cast iron game to the next level, get him this award-winning skillet that improves on the classics with some clever details like a stay-cool handle, side spouts for pouring, and a signature “soft” texture to match. Easier to work than traditional cast iron.
Preville
Smoking gun
Meat? Vegetables? Cocktails? He can smoke them all.
My husband
External dome oven
Gozney’s professional wood-burning oven can do everything from cooking pizza to searing steaks to smoking hams. In addition, it appears to have been designed by a world-class architect. Consider it the future crown jewel of his backyard setup.
Rocco
Super smart refrigerator
Whether it has a proper man cave, a garage, or a closet turned office, it’s an insanely cool place to be tasty The mini fridge will be the apple of his new eye. Using the same technology that powers Sub-Zero refrigerators, this little guy will cool whatever he chooses with its modular, customizable shelving system. Plus, it comes with a 96-pack of La Croix which pretty much justifies the cost.
Flamingo Estate
Personal Heritage Extra Virgin Olive Oil
Harvested from a fourth-generation family olive farm in Ojai, California, Flamingo Estate’s beautiful olive oil is versatile enough to be used for everything from dipping to cooking, and can be personalized with a handwritten note right on the label.
Porter Road
Butcher’s Choice Box
The King of BBQ will have an abundance of protein at his disposal with his carefully selected butcher box that will provide him with only premium seasonal cuts from farms that exclusively raise their animals.
KitchenAid
Design Series stand mixer
It’s been hyped a lot since it came out, but we know there’s a wood-loving mid-century woodworking guy out there who will be seriously stoked to get a new KitchenAid equipped with a walnut pan for his next baking fortune.
Azkarai
Throw Picasso
The gift of sharing is truly a gift to you, too. Ezcaray wool and mohair throws not only look like artistic textiles on your sofa, but they are also incredibly warm so you can relax and stretch out.
Schoolhouse x Pendleton®
Canebreak fleece blanket
Comrades have been snuggling under Pendleton’s iconic wool blankets for centuries, but if the brand’s signature Americana designs don’t quite suit your aesthetic, you’ll be happy to hear the good folks at Schoolhouse have given it a fresh new look with this new collection of plaids that will look good in even the most modern home.
Saturn Glassware
Martini set of 4
Hosting the holidays means fun drinks for everyone, so channel that energy with funky, multi-colored martini glasses that you can still load into the dishwasher after the festivities are over.
Boxo
Annual snack box subscription
If he loves Japanese cuisine but won’t be able to make the 14-hour flight there any time soon, spend his year bringing Japan to him. Each month you will be able to unlock over 20 different products exclusively in Japan including snacks, candy and tea – all part of a new monthly theme and sourced from a family-run business.
Atlas Coffee Club
Annual subscription
Quick poll: Does he like coffee? What about travel? Then this Coffee of the Month will be a guaranteed hit. Each month he will be able to try a bag of single-origin beans from a new place around the world, giving him the opportunity to travel with his tastes – no passport required.
Style gifts
psycho
Automatic watch for men
For the self-proclaimed Watch Guy, this beloved Seiko model combines a classic stainless steel case with a blue dial that looks almost as handsome as it is.
Jack Soloviere
Mark Zip Bot
We didn’t know it was possible to create the perfect shoe, but Jacques Soloviere did it. Crafted from calf leather in an evergreen silhouette, he’ll rock these today and years from now in photos with the grandkids, too.
Todd Snyder
Polo in wool and silk
Todd Snyder, the king of easy menswear, has done it again with this polo and rugby hybrid that comes luxurious in a wool and silk blend fabric. Whether he’s wearing Armani pants, or a pair of classic 501 shoes, he won’t want to take this off.
Toga Virilis
SSENSE exclusive brown loafers
A man with Western inclinations needs some thick skin to match his appearance. Help him step up with this exceptionally cool boot decorated with fuzzy cowboy parts.
Abercrombie & Fitch
7 pack of basic tees
Is it time to fix your degree of holey undershirts and shirts? Abercrombie has been covering this category for years, and now they’ve created the perfect starter package. One T-shirt for every day of the week, with a relaxed fit and a muted color palette, all for $100.
Tanner’s goods
Bi-fold utility
If he’s had his current wallet since you’ve been together, maybe it’s time to upgrade (to his wallet, not him).
Alex Mel
The Frontier jacket is made from recycled fabric
This sweater has major dad energy, and we mean that as a compliment, naturally.
Felson
Compact tin cloth bag
Filson makes some of our favorite bags ever, and this one is a little smaller than most, so it won’t take up too much space on a crowded subway car.
Percival
Sherlock Auxiliary Waterproof Coat
Percival has been making this trendy coat for over 10 years, and it never goes out of style. With a waterproof upper and sleek silhouette, it’ll keep you dry for the next decade.
Marnie
Navy striped scarf
Loved for its whimsical yet cozy designs, this woven cashmere and wool blend scarf is a wearable entry point into Marni’s hair.
Gucci
Silk bee net tie
Add a little magic to his office with Gucci’s signature bee graphic made from 100% silk.
The reigning hero
Comfortable terry sweatpants
Todd Snyder
Napkin medallion
If he doesn’t feel like wearing a full tie these days, get him this fun bandanna to wear and elevate his existing look.
47 Brand
Cleaning cap
Baseball hats may be synonymous with the sweaty summer months, but this update on the legendary Harris Tweed fabric will provide a comfortable option to wear into the winter months.
J.Crew
Kenmare suit jacket with a relaxed fit
Nike
Everyday Plus Training Cushioned Ankle Socks
Give his precious feet the support and cushion they need with these socks from Swoosh, which give a little extra cushioning around the heel, forefoot and arch.
Jackson
JX1 chronograph watch
It’s not an AP, but Jaxxon’s design of a very popular octagon watch means we can keep our 401k untouched while getting some sweet wrist candy.
New York City on Saturdays
Bowery signature crew
Salomon
Off-white X-Alp leather sneakers
Promise us you won’t let him wear those cooked Air Force 1s in the humid months ahead, okay? Instead, get this Salomons boot that blends a cool off-white color palette with technical details like an extra durable outsole, cushioned insole, and bonded seams to keep out cold and moisture all winter long.
Le Mont Saint Michel
French Moleskine work jacket
Article one
Article 1 x Mission Workshop Sunglasses
These rugged sunglasses take that ’70s “Explorer” look, handsome on anyone, and upgrade them with high-quality materials for a durable, flexible body and lenses ready to block UVA/UVB rays and road glare. Plus, his style icon Ryan Gosling (rocked them) (https://www.gq.com/story/ryan-gosling-article-one-sunglasses), in case he wasn’t already convinced.
Sèvres
Polished alpaca blend beanie
You know he’ll be wearing a beanie every day this winter, so why not make it that way You Like to look at? We’re really into this fuzzy number that upends what you’d expect a beanie to be made of brushed alpaca blend material.
Gucci
GG Marmont leather bifold wallet
They say money is a mindset, so put him in the mindset of a sexy Italian jet-setter with this ultra-stylish all-black calfskin bifold with the iconic Double G badge.
Half a day
Duffel for clothes 45 litres
We shed tears every time a man stuffs a nice suit into a tight suitcase. Enter this hybrid to save the day, which cleverly combines a compact garment bag for suits, jackets or jackets, while leaving plenty of room to pack all his other gear.
Tech gifts
nebula
Anker Mars II Pro 500 ANSI Lumen NEBULA Portable Projector
DJI
Osmo Pocket 3
Whether launching a YouTube channel or better documenting your travels, the Osmo Pocket 3 is an easy-to-use creators’ camera. It has a built-in gimbal for smooth cinematic camera movements and can easily switch between portrait and landscape orientation when it wants the full panoramic effect.
Eight sleep
Pod 4
For rough sleepers, a temperature-regulating “pod” cover could save your marriage. It slides over your mattress, giving everyone the ability to cool or warm both sides of the bed to the perfect Goldilocks temperature, as well as track your sleep metrics (so you’ll know exactly how many hours you’re getting in your REM cycle). .
Pioneer DJ
DJ Rekordbox and Serato DJ Controller
For your husband who has added a new entry to his resume – DJ – do the right thing and make sure he has the right equipment to chop and jam like a pro. There are a lot of options and specs to consider, but we’ve got you covered by Reddit’s deep dive and brought you this recommendation that’s a very solid entry-level controller at a reasonable price.
Therabody
Theragun Sense
If he had a body in 2024, he’d probably benefit from this massage gun that could be used to treat sore muscles after a workout or aches from his desk job.
fender
Squier Affinity Series Stratocaster HSS Package
It’s never too late to make those garage band dreams come true.
dead
Quest 3 Mixed Reality Breakthrough
Nintendo
Switch the OLED model to white
The beloved Nintendo Switch now comes with a vibrant 7-inch OLED display and enhanced audio to take it to the next Mario Kart level.
Riga
Rega Planar 1 turntable
Brick
Brick
Does he always complain about the amount of time he wastes scrolling on his phone? Brick is a stupid and brilliant solution. Identify which apps are tools and which are distractions, then lock them. The key here is that the brick is a physical object, so he can leave it around the room or even at home while he’s on vacation, so he’s not tempted to just skip that screen time notice for the sixteenth time.
1 mi
ML300 2 in 1 Bluetooth 5.2 Transmitter Receiver
You know that feeling of trying to watch an airplane movie through garbagio’s free airplane headphones? Yes, we don’t do that anymore. Get this smart sock that he can plug into the headphone jack and connect to his favorite Bluetooth headphones. Plus, you can strap on another pair of headphones if you decide you want to cuddle up across the armrest and watch the same flick.
Gifts under $100
Smart change
Five Minute Magazine
You don’t have to be a dedicated writer to enjoy the benefits of daily writing. With this easy entry point, it takes just five minutes a day to inspire a feeling of gratitude for all the things going right in his life (i.e. you, as this gift helpfully reminds him).
Lululemon
ABC Warpstreme slip-on pants
“Anti-ball crush” is a phrase no one should think about in relation to his husband, but we’re sure he’ll come to Lululemon’s widely popular ABC line. Why not get him the latest in the collection, with a sharp tapered leg and super comfy fabric?
Yuval Noah Harari
“Nexus: A Brief History of Information Networks from the Stone Age to Artificial Intelligence”
Yuval Noah Harari, author of the popular Beginning Seminar The wise one He’s back with another wild thinker. This time we explore how information networks have shaped human life from the Stone Age to artificial intelligence. If he likes learning from the past and discussing the future, sink his teeth into it.
Byredo
Library candle
A little luxury that evokes the scent of a well-stocked library with notes of leather, patchouli and plum.
Craighill
Headphone holder
Now that he has his fancy headphones, he’ll need a fancy place to put them when they’re not on his head.
Standard channel
Subscribe
If movies are called “movies” then this is a no-brainer.
CMYK
Wavelength: Party game show in a box
Here’s an easy-to-learn, endlessly replayable party game for your next hangout with friends. You and him, of course, are on the same wavelength and will definitely dominate.
Barbour
Quilted dog coat
Natrjak
Natterjack Irish Whiskey
Whiskey connoisseurs will appreciate this award-winning newcomer with its “Irish with an American accent” approach to incorporating the best distilling techniques from both sides of the pond. For a bold, complex and delicious pour, Natterjack is the oddly shaped gift that should be under the tree this year.
The show wrote
“What I Ate in One Year” by Stanley Tucci
You love Stanley Tucci, he loves Stanley Tucci, we all love Stanley Tucci. So let him “dine” with everyone’s favorite foodies with this new memoir that gives an inside look at every meal Tucci ate over the course of a year, and all the smart, poignant, and profoundly human observations that came with them.
Abercrombie
Oversized crew style jacket
A slightly cropped oversized piece, a juicy shade of merlot, and a hand-drawn sketch of his biggest passions (wine and cheese, respectively)—this might just be the perfect holiday sweater.
